A conversation with a friend

So firstly, Happy New Year to all my readers!

Secondly, the reason behind this blog post today...

So, my friend at work asked me a question everyone will ask themselves and others at some point, 'will I ever be loved by someone as much as I love them'. Possibly not exactly those words but you get the idea. Now, before my current relationship I was in a 5 year relationship where I fell out of love with my partner. Even though it was my decision to end it, I still asked myself the same question, 'will anyone love me like he did?' The answer to that question was and is YES.

I know some people may sit there and read this and think, that's easy for you to say but you're not me or something else along those lines. Thing is, relationships are all the same in the sense that you fall in love, you sometimes love forever and sometimes you fall out of love. That is the same for every person in the entire world, the difference is the relationship you have with your partner will be different to someone elses.

I have proved myself wrong due to the fact I found someone shortly after my Ex partner and have also falling in love. The point I am trying to make here is this, love a lot but do not live for anything other than the present. When you break up with someone who you spoke about marrying or having kids with, you feel like you lost a lot more than just the partner. You feel like you've also lost that marriage, those kids. When in actual fact you never had them. If you base your relationship on what you currently feel and want if you do end up falling out of love at least you do not lose as much.

No one will only love one person in their lifetime and really if you think about it it's actually kind of silly to think if you broke up with someone you would never find someone else. There are millions of people in the world and some of those people will also love you like a previous partner did.

Final thought, love for now and enjoy what you have in the present. Love is inevitable and there are multiple people out there for everyone (if one person does not work out).

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